dewa cintaku

"Well, actually, I'm also can be described as a person who does something without concerning too much on other people's thought as long as it makes me happy and doesn't risk anyone's life!!

Dewa Cintaku might be my 1st novel but I have been writting tv n film scripts and also corporat video scripts for more than u know dear..

Nice try but your comment 'bout my novel with penulisan yg kosong itu, does not effect the sales of my novel so far.. ;p "

trimas ar buat dewi cintamu (pemberi komen) sbb singgah blog nih...heheheh...rasanya dilla hussein sendiri yg antar comment nih kat aku..huhuhu...bngga2..:)

munkin aku terlalu keras mengomen novel pertama beliau smpai menggunakn istilah kosong.....:) hehehhe...xsangka dia amat terasa ngan comment jujur aku nih. tp itulah dia suara lubuk hati nih yg bnyk mebaca novel2 kotemporari.

yup, aku akui hidup aku masih baru 22 tahun.garam yg aku telan kurang skit berbanding beliau walaupn saiz bdan nih mmg diakui besar..hehehehhe:) mmg diakui aku bukan penulis novel n drama yg bduyun bnyk,apatah lagi skrip2 teater n tv.hamba cuma pacal yg hina yg suka membaca n menimba ilmu hidup....:)

salah faham terhasil nampaknya krn dilla hussein menyangka komen aku adalah utk mengaco hasil jualan novel dia yg pertama.maafkn diriku ini dewa cintamu, tiada niat utk menjatuhkn mahupn merosakkn penjualan novel itu.maaf yg amat sgt. aku tahu perit menulis novel,aku tahu bnyk payah,penat lelah yg harus dlalui utk menghasilknnya n aku juga tahu menilai ilmu dlm penulisan......:)

novel DEWA CINTAKU xdpt dnafikn menarik,tp xdpt dnafikn juga terlalu stereotaip. mmg dilla hussein menulis bnyk skrip tv,drama,korporat tp kena igt xsmestinya penulisan skrip anda sebaik penulisan novel anda. rasanya komen sy pada novel tuh dr bukn dr segi penyampaiannya.klu nak cakap dr segi penyampaiaannya,novel nih menunjukkan penyampaian seorang penulis skrip.terang n nyata.penajang berjela dlm penyampaian hingga kekadang letih utk menghbiskn pembacaan..:) yg menarik pada aku cuma pada part2 last novel yg berlaku ngan pace yg tinggi n feel yg baik.tp 80% citer tuh buat aku rasa cam slow jer....:)

munkin hanya aku yg mengomen camtuh,tp jgn plak dilla igt komen nih utk menjatuhkn tp anggapla ia sebagai cabaran utk penghasilan yg lebih baik. bagusla penjualan mencapai 50 ribu cetakan,satu penghasilan yg mbanggakn,tp adakah itu jd ukuran betapa baiknya penulisan kita?? aku mbca novel2 sejak tahu 80-an n ada juga penulis yg sgt baik xberhenti menulis tp penjualannya xmencapai angka ribuan.ada gak penulis yg bnyk merosakkan bahasa M'sia n penulisan novel2 jiwang yg penuh ngan angan2 n hipokrasi tp penjualan tangkap ribu riban siap dcetak bnyk kali lagi.....tp kualiti penulisan dia???(xyah selindung,ahadiat akashah adalah antara yg aku maksudkn) so, nyata bukan penjualan yg menjadi ukuran kualiti penulisan kitakn??

so apa yg menjadi ukuran??? pada aku penyampaian penting utk menarik pembaca,tp penjagaan kualtiti bahasa terutama TATABAHASA adalah ukuran utk tahu kualiti penulisan n lg 1 yg mbuatkn aku mengukurkn kualiti ialah info yg ada dlm penulisan itu.klu info pasal biskut julie's je, pastuh info pasal disko2 kat kotaraya KL pada aku tiada perkongsian ilmu cuba dsampaikn oleh penulis...:) melalui kreativiti penulisan juga kita bleh menilai kualiti tp sudah pasti penulisan novel cinta amat sukat utk menulis secara kreatif..:)

andai anda bercerita penat lelah anda usaha utk menerbitkn novel ini,aku pernah lihat org lagi penat lelah dr anda.aku sendiri pernah tgk org yg pergi menjaja hasil penulisan dia sendri byhand supaya org menilai n mbeli.munkin hasil dia xbaik anda,bhasa dia teruk tp usaha dia ada utk seni penulisan.....renung2knlah...:)

skali lagi,maaf diucapkn andai saudari dilla hussein rasa mcm drendahkn kerana kata2ku yg novel saudari kosong,tp ia ikhlas drku.harap saudari tdak akan putus asa n trus berusaha meningkatkn kualiti penulisan saudari.insyaallah, novelku akan menyusul namun jgn punya harapan yg tinggi kerana penulisanku juga bakal terisi ngan ilmu2 kosong drku.i cuma sebuah penulisan kisah hidup seorang sahabat baikku yg penuh perit lelah...:) penulisan yg cuma ada utk meluahkn perasaan n percubaan pertama aku....:) insyaallah klu tiada aral ia akan publish jugak...:) klu xleh publishpn tiada apa yg drugikn kerana aku cuma puas menulis apa yg tersirat n tersurat.....seperti aku menulis d blog ini.......:)

adioza...:)

nih adalah penyakit TAG ptama aku kena utk tahun nih...hehehe...igtkn da abis da virus nih,rupanya kena balik......hehehehe......so sishoney,trimasla mengetag,n harap memuaskn hati pembaca.....actually,soalan nih da berjawab da tahun lepaskn??(sapa yg ikut blog nih dr dulu penah baca kot entri "FAQ")

Here are the rules:
1. The tagged victim has to come up with 8 different points about his/her perfect lover.
2. Have to mention the gender of his/her perfect lover.
3. Tag eight other victims to join this game and leave a comment on their blog.
4. If you are tagged the second time. There is NO need to do this again.
5. Lastly, most importantly, HAVE FUN DOING IT.

My Perfect Lover Must:
1. A Perfect Muslimah..:) aku bukan gay..hehehhe
2. ada pengetahuan agama so bleh tegur aku andai aku lupa agama
3. bnyk bersabar ngan kerenah aku yg giler2 nih
4. gelak dkala aku gelak,sedih dkala aku sedih....
5. cantik dlm hati,bukan dr rupa luaran
6. jujur....setia.....penyayang....pengasih......beauty n brain..:)
7. lebih pandai masak dr mak aku n pandai masak sambal...hehhehe
8. pandai jaga ati mak bapak dia,mak bapak aku n adik bradik aku slain aku..huhuhuhu


this TAg goes to my 8 dearest buddies
kat 8 org yg pertama baca tag nih...anda sudah dtag!!!hehehehhe....haaa...jgn nak lari buat2 cam xbaca!!!adiosa...:)

women n marriage..:)

Contrary to Christianity, Islam does not regard marriages as “made in heaven” or “till death do us part”. They are contracts, with conditions. If either side breaks the conditions, divorce is not only allowed, but usually expected. evertheless, a hadith makes it clear that: “Of all the things God has allowed, divorce is the most disliked.”

A Muslim has a genuine reason for divorce only if a spouse’s behaviour goes against the sunnah of Islam - in other words, if he or she has become cruel, indictive, abusive, unfaithful, neglectful, selfish, sexually abusive, tyrannical, perverted - and so on.

In good Islamic practice, before divorce can be contemplated, all possible efforts should be made to solve a couple’s problems. After an intention
to divorce is announced, there is a three-month period during which more attempts are made at reconciliation.

If, by the end of each month, the couple have resumed sexual intimacy, the ivorce should not proceed. The three-month rule ensures that a woman
cannot remarry until three menstrual cycles have passed - so, if she happens to be pregnant, the child will be supported and paternity will not be in dispute.

When Muslims die, strict laws govern the shares of property and money they may leave to others; daughters usually inherit less than sons, but this
is because the men in a family are supposed to provide for the entire household.
Any money or property owned by women is theirs to keep, and they are not bliged to share it. Similarly, in marriage, a woman’s salary is hers and cannot be appropriated by her husband unless she consents.

A good Muslim woman, for her part, should always be trustworthy and kind. She should strive to be cheerful and encouraging towards her husband and family, and keep their home free from anything harmful (haram covers all spects of harm, including bad behaviour, abuse and forbidden foods).

Regardless of her skills or intelligence, she is expected to accept her man as the head of her household - she must, therefore, take care to marry a man she can respect, and whose wishes she can carry out with a clear conscience. However,
when a man expects his wife to do anything contrary to the will of God - in other words, any nasty, selfish, dishonest or cruel action - she has the right to refuse him.

Her husband is not her master; a Muslim woman has only one Master, and that is God. If her husband does not represent God’s will in the home, the marriage contract is broken.

What should one make of the verse in the Koran that allows a man to punish his wife physically? There are important provisos: he may do so only if her ill-will is wrecking the marriage - but then only after he has exhausted all attempts at verbal communication and tried sleeping in a separate bed.

However, the Prophet never hit a woman, child or old person, and was emphatic that those who did could hardly regard themselves as the best of
Muslims. Moreover, he also stated that a man should never hit “one of God’s handmaidens”. Nor, it must be said, should wives beat their husbands or become inveterate nags.

Finally, there is the issue of giving witness. Although the Koran says nothing explicit, other Islamic sources suggest that a woman’s testimony in court is worth only half of that of a man. This ruling, however, should be applied only in
circumstances where a woman is uneducated and has led a very restricted life: a woman equally qualified to a man will carry the same weight as a witness.

So, does Islam oppress women?

While the spirit of Islam is clearly patriarchal, it regards men and women as moral equals. Moreover, although a man is technically the head of the household, Islam encourages matriarchy in the home. Women may not be equal in the manner defined by Western feminists, but their core differences from
men are acknowledged, and they have rights of their own that do not apply to men.

thanks to siter ainihayati in australia for this article...hope this "ilmu" can be share with others....:)

p/s: sorry sishoney xjwb lagi tags tuh..:) inssyallah akn djawab secepat munkin...when the times come..:)

nihla video yg menjadi perbualan hangat kat youtube..hehehhe...mmg kreatif ar budak MMU yg bua video nih....hijab babe!!!!

yg bestnya ada video ini juga mbongkari btapa ada gak kaum hawa yg bodh agama nih.xcaya tgkla debat kat coment tuh.bukan aku nak hina,tp realiti.mak aku pn kaum hawa,so aku xda niat cakap org pompuan nih smua bodh agama.aku cakap ada jugak (maksudnya sesetengah) kaum hawa nih yg bodoh agama (bukan smua k)

so,setelah aku buat research stakat yg aku mampu n tahu,pemakaian tudung nih wajib.pasal tutup muka nampak mata tuh plak actually bukan wajib.klu BERSOLEK, yup kena tutup muka tuh sbb elakkan fitnah.bukan apa,kekadang org cam aku yg ada skit ilmu cosmestic sbb blaja dr mak nih tmbah plak mulut nih mmg laser tahap 22 petala langit,mmg akan komen la pompuan2 yg suka solek sana solek sini.dedah san dedah sini n secara xlangsung aku fitnah ar dia jugak tuh....aku tahu salah tp buat gak...lemahnya iman nih..:(

so,dlm islampn pompuan kena tutup semua melainkn tapak muka n tngankn.so klu pakai tudung tuh insyaallah dpt pahala.xyah la make up2 muka tuh sbb yg original tuh sentiasa terbaik.minah2 arab kat sinipn,klu barang kosmetik nih diorang xpandangpn.paling tidak pakai celak mata.tp bila mata ini bertentang mata ngan diorang,masyaallah....mgigil lutut nih.sapa yg xpernah tgk mmgla cakap aku menipu.da rasa baru tau!!! tu yg xtutup muka tu (biasanya yg nih jenis anak dara xreti make up2 lagi) tgk lagi hijab da buka.ada skali jer aku tgk..mmg cun giler ar...nasib ar aku toleh cepat2,klu x bleh tangkap leleh aku nih....cantiknya ciptaan tuhan.biasanya yg da kawin akan tutup muka sbb kan perhiasan seorang isteri hanya utk suami dia.nih tidak.tgk mak datin2 tuh.dhla tua.make up nak nampak cambest,tp xsedar org kutuk2 kehuduhan dia.tu pn kira fitnah gak tuh sbb mana tau dia mmg huduh.tp klu da tau huduh xyah la nak vogue2.bukannya Allah kat sapa yg vogue tuh masuk syurgakn????

smpai sinila dulu ringkasa berita kali nih.maaf andai tersilp kata.xleh tulis pepanjang sbb hati tgh sakit gile cam kena sembilu...:) adios......

pg genting plak kali nih....aku xsure lagi aku bleh join ker x,tp hajat dhati mmg nak join pun!!heheheheheh.....pg ngan sapa tuh xsure lagi la...maybe ngan mak kot??? :) aku harap smua blogger dapat hadir.....belh jd meriah giler khinzir nanti!!!heheheheh

ntah

kan indah perilaku seindah kata......nak nulis panjang tp malas tahap cipan!!! so letak nih ajala utk bgtau korang smua yg aku masih sihat,cuma perubahan cuaca kat sini (smalam smpai 56 celcius) buat aku jd pening lalat n xda kemampuan utk berfikir ngan waras.....heheheheh



ohyer,aku tau nih lagu lama...heheheheh